As you are creating your goals and resolutions for the year, be sure to include GOD in those! Remember, we make plans and God laughs! Take some time to move slowly, to listen to what God wants and where God wants you to be. If you do not believe in God, make sure your goals are moving from your higher power.
The point is, not to make goals from ‘making yourself better,’ but from your empowering purpose and calling. There’s a fine line, and the goal can be the same, but the difference is in the intention and source. So get clear on your principles and work from there.