Good morning everyone! I am inspired by this quote today:

„Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.”  Charles R. Swindoll

I FIRMLY believe that life is going to be a series of challenges that are what our higher power knows we need to achieve unconditional love. We will continue to manifest something until we can love and accept what has been. What, in your life, if anything, do you hate? Hate will never free you from it, and you’ll continue to bring it about until you can love it and let it go.

This includes our past and right now. I never thought I could re-write history until I did Landmark, and from re-arranging my view through incredible self-discovery, I learned how to look at my past in a whole new light.

If you want to sign up for a 3 day course that can transform every aspect of your life, look here: www.landmarkworldwide.org and SIGN UP. Best thing I ever did for myself.

Sending love to all, thanks for being on the other side!



Hey all! Good morning! Anyone else out there stuck with this bug??

I am reflective this morning of the following quote:

„No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible.” –Voltaire

There is a lot going on in the world today, most of it feels ‘over there’ for us. While our self-love is incredibly important, how important is it?

When you die you will meet God. Hebrews 9:27 This scripture has always meant more to me emphasizing the ‘you’ instead of the ‘die.’ When we, the ego, is removed, then we can experience God. Whether you believe in Jesus, a higher power that is in a glowing light, or just no God at all, either way, removing ego is at the forefront of growth. Thus, again, how important is our little world?

I’ve been swirling this around in my mind quite a bit lately. I have a passion for socio-economic prejudice and the impacts it has on education and impact on persona and a pre-determined and taught self-relationship with people in that society. And, I have things I have going on in my small world.

I continue to toggle about liking my haircut while there are others who are unsure of how to attain their next meal by no fault of their own, being born into poverty in this country. 

So, as I continue to self-love, my self-gaze dims, it expands, the self-righteousness of me needing to love my breasts disempowers, I move forward past my nose into society, where the whole world is living. In this I feel I am overflowing.

Sending love to all, thanks for being on the other side!


Good morning all!

Today is the 81st day, can you believe it? I wonder how many of my emails you all have read. Some, all, barely? I hear from some of you but its nice to get check-ins from you all. 🙂 Hope you enjoyed your weekend.

You know, I cut my hair off the other week, it was pretty spontaneous. The haircut and the color both turned out to be done awfully bad. I’m not sure if its related but my hairdresser was fired days later. I had a friend come in and repair it but my hair looks nothing like it used to and I prefer it the old way. And, I can’t say for sure if I’d like it more than my old hair if it looks the way I wanted it to. And everyones so fast to say “Well, it will grow back.” And that’s true, it will in two years or maybe one year with daily Biotin, but isn’t it so easy for us to tell others not to worry? We are exceptional advice givers and have a harder time doing what we say.

And why is that? Is it the distinction between perspective and action? Or is it being able to see ourselves less clearly? Or more clearly? Or is it us just projecting our ‘crap’ onto others? At any rate, I often have found people are very empowered giving others advice they didn’t ask for. I don’t ever say “Oh I’m so upset about my hair, do you have any advice for me?” Its simply, I don’t prefer my hair responded with “Oh don’t worry it’ll grow back.” Whats my point I’m sure you’re asking if you’ve read this far.

My point is this: Why do we do that? Or first jump instinct is to provide something for someone, to give some help or advice or coaching instead of just being with that person. I personally would rather have someone laugh with me about it then come into the space of fixing it. That’s just me, of course. But the point is still, instead of these triggered and automated responses, where can I just be with someone?

Where am I just using automated responses verbally or actually? Where am I being inauthentic? Where am I just comforting someone when they don’t want or need to be comforted?

I can be honest in that a lot of my strengths in my personality are about helping others and I’m sure that bleeds into spaces it doesn’t need to be or is wanted. So, today, I’m forgiving myself for getting this haircut, (joke) for automated responses, I’m forgiving others for assuming I need something when I haven’t pointed to that, and I’m going to be in the moment, bringing to the table the interaction with that individual instead of pre-determined responses. How are you doing? “Good” is another example of a blanket response with no real interaction.

So, lets make it a day to be present with others, to offer more than consolation, to be For Giving, and to For Getting of our previous automated responses.

Also, I revamped my work program yesterday, I’m starting my 21 days again today and will KYP! Last but not least, here’s today Karmatic focus:


– You can not think of two things at the same time.
– When our focus is on Spiritual Values, it is impossible for us to have lower thoughts such as greed or anger.




Hey everyone, good morning!

I’m going to briefly pause for the Karmatic Laws for today to share whats going on for me these past few days.

First of all, I’ve been pursuing my program for 21 days in all of my passions, but with not much success. The 8 hour work day structure I set up isn’t realistic for all the extra things I have going on, not to mention so much travel lately. So, I’ve been tweeking here and there, but essentially, I am going to go back to the drawing board tomorrow (Sunday, as the new start of the week) and re-plan. In terms of simply working harder, its possible, but then I would be compromising my 8 hours of sleep, and with all the physical work I do I simply do not choose to do that. So, the efforts have been attempted and now we know one more plan that doesn’t work so thats great!

Secondly, I’ve been really enjoying my movement lately. I have felt so laid back mentally, just really enjoying what comes out, and of course my dance has been reflecting that. However, I have chosen to enter a battle today, which I normally don’t do and haven’t done for some time, and so my mind is rusty in this game. Entering battles, while I feel they are over-used, are helpful for me as a check-in. While again, yes, I do have some principles against not battling all the time, I also believe that entering them once in a while allows me to challenge myself in a new light.

So, today is that day. I could feel little moments of anxiety and doubt about it creeping up. Over 10 years ago I had a terrible, terrible battling experience, and instead of re-approaching battles to have a new relationship with them I ran and stayed stuck in that theory. This was not the smartest choice! But I went out last night and had several inspiring moments happen.

The first thing that happened last night was they played amazing old school funk, I’m talking a slloooOoOoow 2-step. It was soo nice! What clubs are doing that anymore? And I’ll tell you most people did not know how to dance to that! But, sure enough, I did, and so did Jade, and we were just smiliinnnnnn and 2 steppin and feeling the music and being moved. And I just kept feeling like… I have nothing to prove, I dance for me, I dance from the music, I just love dancing, and there’s nothing to be afraid of bc all I have to do is dance and whatever happens happens. And it. was. so. beautiful. And thats how I feel today.

The second thing that happened was that someone walked up to me and asked me “Are you Jojo?” and I said “I am!” and they said “Are you judging tomorrow?” and I shook my head. They paused and opened their eyes and asked “Wait, are you battling??” And I nodded my head. This person literally threw up their hands and was like “ahhh” in disappointment and walked away. Now, I know this is a compliment, but I immediately was like.. this person doesn’t get it. They’re just going out there to win, instead of enjoying the challenge. And then I realized it was me God was showing me, just the exaggerated version. (Kind of like Dojo, Jessie’s dog hehe)

So, today, I really feel so grounded. Today, I am honored and excited to be with all these young dancers who are incredibly talented. The experience of these challenges is going to be amazing. I am not going there to win, I am going there to share my dance, celebrate life, and enjoy others, as well. Today is going to be wonderful. ❤

I hope you all are having a great time this weekend, I hope you are enjoying these messages. Thanks for being on the other side. We are officially 3 weeks out!