1/40 Days Of Wholeness


Well, good afternoon!

TBH I’m a bit rusty at sending out these emails, I remembered and forgot 3 times this morning. 🙂 I’ll get back into the swing of things. Again, as a reminder, if at any time you’d like to discontinue receiving emails simply reply STOP.

Starting off my journey I’d like to talk about desire vs frustration. Isn’t frustration/anger just unfulfilled desire? I feel that if we look at this way we can still access our desires through looking at our frustrations differently. They are also a desire. And, if we zoom out from the specificity of the desire or frustration we can see who we really are as people instead of staring at the situational side of things.

Example, lets say I get very frustrated about people not putting their shopping carts into the proper aisle in the parking lot. If I ‘zoom out’ I can see that I’m someone who loves organization and being considerate of others. By looking at the frustration a different way I see myself in the light rather than the world in frustration. This is now a space for me to contribute and make a difference.

This knowing of ourselves, altering our perspective, and loving how we see things is a starting point for our wholeness bc it puts the reaction to circumstance in our hands, and not in the hands of the world. This very nature is how we are whole. No one can make us whole. Only God and our Selves can do that.

Sending love to all, thanks for being on the other side!



Good morning everyone! 

Hope your weekend was spectacular and empowering. What are your resolutions for this week? Have you reflected on the past week and looked into this new one? For me, what didn’t work was a feeling of “hiding” my shortcomings to others. I realized late on Saturday that I had been trying to angle myself in a way with particular shortcomings that hid them. With some I was bold, with others I was not. While shortcomings are always perspective, I took it upon myself to re-introduce myself to those that I felt I had experienced that hiding feeling with. This is who I am, and I know that if you love me you’ll be right here with me through them. It was empowering and I woke up feeling sexier and more peaceful on Sunday. That carried with me throughout the day. 

Today I am starting a little study of the 12 forms of Karma and each day I’ll be walking through them with you, not so much focusing on the karmatic response, but moreso of the personal responsibility. Hope you enjoy them!


– “As you sow, so shall you reap”. This is also known as the “Law of Cause and Effect”.
– Whatever we put out in the Universe is what comes back to us.
– If what we want is Happiness, Peace, Love, Friendship… Then we should BE Happy, Peaceful, Loving and a True Friend.


This is always a basic reminder, and we’ve seen it written in multiple places, in various suggestions. One thing I had been reflecting on last year was a lack of a very closer inner circle, I felt lonely and rejected. And when I stopped being a baby (I say that truthfully but joking with love) I realized I hadn’t made those efforts! So I took it upon myself to let people know what I want as well as answer the phone when people call, call other, announce things to people first instead of on IG and FB. Things of this nature already shifted things for me.

But what I can say I can still work on is my confidence. How I carry myself WILL be how others interact me. I’ve done something similar with you all/this journey/myself before, but today I am going to be very aware of what I say and how I hold my body, taking on deep confidence for the whole day.

What will you take on for today regarding “The Great Law?”

Thanks for being on the other side!


Spread thin? Or doubling in size?

Good morning all! So, this morning I woke up very very early which happens sometimes when Jade comes to bed very late. Often times I can fall back asleep but sometimes my mind gets going and it just won’t stop. Because I’ve been feeling a bit of a lull lately and was feeling like I couldn’t think still, I decided to get up. I’m really glad I did that.

I reviewed my goals for 2018 and thought to myself how spread thin I am. I wish I could just focus on one thing. Lately I’ve been seeing memes about dedicating yourself to one thing and the rest will follow. But I just thought about how I have many loves and I’d miss a lot of things if I didn’t pursue them as well. I felt great in my areas but stagnant in that greatness. I want excellence and growth.

So, taking a real look at myself, I accepted I had never been willing to do the work it takes to focus intensely on this many things, so ya, my hard work was dispersed. So, I am taking on 3 weeks of really trying this out. I have scheduled out 8 hour days for myself, not including whatever comes my way.

After the 3 weeks I will be able to take a real look at myself and see whether or not this is something I can and want to keep up. I will be also to see what I wanted to take a front seat and back seat at times. Today is Day 1, scheduled and completely mapped out and I’m ready!

For those curious, here is my 16 categories:

1. social support (considering starting a freestyle or choreo crew)
2. closer to God (wanting to do more bible studies)
3. finances (considering investing)
4. freestyle expression (started studying 2 new styles this year)
5. art projects (working on a film this year)
6. career
7. family (not a goal, but I want to take a trip w them this year)
8. diggs deeper (I want to throw the Training session weekend, our anniversary, a choreo competition, our mentorship program and a party this year)
9. fitness (want to build 10 lbs of muscle)
10. vlogs (want to start doing vlogs on the dance scene, mental development, fitness, dance, so on)
11. mental growth (want to take some developmental courses this year)
12. style (updating my look and closet, as well as need to do more photo shoots this year)
13. physical health (daily stretch and full body healing)
14. organization (I really struggle staying on task when I travel)
15. mentorship (i’m mentoring 4 people right now)
16. self love / project (doing 100 days of self love emails and blogs, I’m on day 69 today.)

Wish me luck!
Thanks for being on the other side –



Good morning everyone, happy new week!

Today I am reflective of forgiveness. I recently found out a friend of mine was hurting others, intentionally lying and manipulating ​them, including attempts at influencing people’s opinions of me. Needless to say it was easy to feel anger and frustration.

Now I ​definitely haven’t been holding onto these feelings of anger or frustration, I let it go after several days

​(help from and ​thanks to my support system,​)​ but I am reflective this morning on the difference between ​letting go and forgiveness. There was still a part of me that was judging him.

​So, I’m reminded that forgiveness was still something that I was doing in a way that made me feel better than the other person. “Be the bigger person” I thought to myself. Is that real forgiveness? Or is that ego?​​

​In order to forgive him I actually have to focus on myself, and WHO I WANT TO BE.

At first I thought forgiveness was for them, and then I realized it was for me, but AFTER THAT, I realized its for me only, and not me in comparison to the other. While I still have to remind myself of this, theres an area that exists in between selfishness and pleasing others, which is simply me focusing on who I want to be.

This is Self – Love, creating a world where I strive to be who I want to be, not to be pleasing to others, but to be pleasing to who I believe I want to be, which, for me, is centered around God.

I hope this helps in some way, it helped me by writing it! Thanks for being on the other side.


Love is the reward for love.