Literally, almost as if its magic, I have been feeling swarms of confidence and calmness. The confidence feels a bit different than I expected. Less of the confidence is about me, and more of it is about life and how everything will move, shift, and shape in my benefit.
Thanks for being on the other side,


Hey, good afternoon!

Did anyone join me yesterday on the journey of interacting with others as though we see them as complete, and whole? Did anyone else fail like me? ha! I did better than the day before, but not 100% present to it. So easy for me to forget those projects.

Although, interestingly I really can say that I can feel a difference in my calmness and confidence already. Why? I’m not 100% sure. But I am. I really felt it in my performance yesterday.

Inside of the definition of wholeness is the word unity, which I really felt touched by. Having the sense that in order for us to be whole we have to be in union with ourself, this means being in line with our actions and desires, carrying out what it is that we want to be doing, saying and feeling.

I have a lot of that, but I’m still not as productive as I’d like to be. In order to be whole, I’m going to get some clarity on where I can alter that.

Hope your Tuesday is going well!

1/40 Days Of Wholeness


Well, good afternoon!

TBH I’m a bit rusty at sending out these emails, I remembered and forgot 3 times this morning. 🙂 I’ll get back into the swing of things. Again, as a reminder, if at any time you’d like to discontinue receiving emails simply reply STOP.

Starting off my journey I’d like to talk about desire vs frustration. Isn’t frustration/anger just unfulfilled desire? I feel that if we look at this way we can still access our desires through looking at our frustrations differently. They are also a desire. And, if we zoom out from the specificity of the desire or frustration we can see who we really are as people instead of staring at the situational side of things.

Example, lets say I get very frustrated about people not putting their shopping carts into the proper aisle in the parking lot. If I ‘zoom out’ I can see that I’m someone who loves organization and being considerate of others. By looking at the frustration a different way I see myself in the light rather than the world in frustration. This is now a space for me to contribute and make a difference.

This knowing of ourselves, altering our perspective, and loving how we see things is a starting point for our wholeness bc it puts the reaction to circumstance in our hands, and not in the hands of the world. This very nature is how we are whole. No one can make us whole. Only God and our Selves can do that.

Sending love to all, thanks for being on the other side!



Good morning all!
Today, on a day which celebrates love, lets be mindful that it is a reminder for celebrating love everyday. ❤
Secondly, did anyone look or find anything from researching your learning and/or where you might be stuck or plateaued in growth?
Last but not least, I wanted to briefly write about wholeness. When I was younger, I really leaned into partying, alcohol, etc. I had an empty hole and filled it up with that validation and distraction. When I found dance, I was so much more empowered!! I immediately switched over and had this incredibly healthy tool to fill up that empty space with!

And, then, about 6 years ago (through my work with Landmark) I realized that I had been doing that; trying to fill my emptiness with something external. Then I realized that, no matter how healthy dance is, no thing will ever fill up that empty space I felt inside.

I had tried to fill it up with so many things, people, success, career, music, dance, IG, beauty products, so much more. But, then, about 3.5 years ago, God came along and since then I have been learning how to fill that empty space with God, with myself, with my Self love.

If we are using anything, anything at all besides our own Self to be complete, it will fail. Universe/God/Higher Power will not let that disempowerment continue, because, if you don’t complete yourself how can you fully love someone? You couldn’t, because the fear of them leaving and you ‘losing’ that completeness will dominate.

I recently read “Once you are happy alone others will want to be with you,” and thats true, but I don’t think it speaks better than the quote “Don’t find your other half, find another whole.”

Happy Valentines everyone, may the occurrences with the loves in your life that you find never alter your own love of self, for once you have God and that is enough, you are forever empowered and complete.

Thanks for being on the other side ❤